Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Will there ever come a point when I am happy for people I don't know really that well getting together? Hmmm...perhaps when I am in a settled happy relationship. Then I guess I won't really be concerned with it. But until that day comes, I will continue to be annoyed when some people get together...especially when girls are dipping into my league who shouldn't be there (reference, Campbell 2006, see previous blog entries for details on dating league theory). Some of you may be sitting there thinking...Jessica, that is so mean, but be honest...many of you have sit there and had the same thoughts...but just not voiced them. Girls, I know you are out there...I can hear it in the cynical voices that refer to your previous crush and their new so and so. And I would like to say..that is ok. I want others to be happy, but at times I get a little frustrated and annoyed...let's all just be honest. I am all about embracing the honesty tonight.

If you know me, then you probably know that I like to travel. I get these weekly emails informing me about deals and specials. There is one email that I particularly am having difficulty deleting. I mean it is not as if I have the finances, paided off time from work, or a travel companion to go...but it is a great deal. A great deal on the beach...a gorgeous beach may I add with white sand and crystal blue waters. I am going to delete it from my email tonight..but I am going to post it here for any of you who may be able to go.

I have a question for you readers out there..can friends truly transition into romance? And what are the limits and boundaries that are crossed that send you into "friend neverneverland"? Talk amongst yourselves...comment here if you like or on myspace. I am interested in your thoughts.

1 Comments:

At 11:43 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes, friends can become romanticly involved. The person you are romanticly involved with should be your best friend first then the romance can come. Other wise there is not a true connection there, you have to feel comfortable around your partner or the relationship will not last. Communication is the key to any true relationship, if you can't talk to your partner openly you have a serious problem.

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