Reunited never felt so good (sing along everyone)..yes I am referring to myself and my laptop. After my screen got repaired..my electrical adapter went dead (or shall we say that the holes Kaden had chewed in the wires finally affected it). In one day my dear punk cost me $100...I had to reorder the adapter....30...and then he chewed a memory card!!!!!....yes....70...I use large cards because of weddings and events, etc. The joys of having a dog indeed.

I had three days off from work and they went too fast as always. I so need a vacation!! I am trying to hold off though because I am planning a trip to MN in August to visit "my best guy friend" Josh and maybe Ireland in the fall. Speaking of which irish boy and his girlfriend of 3 years broke up (they may be back together now), but I am like..so is it a good thing to go or not go. If I do go would I rather he be dating someone or not? The selfish girl in me says I don't want him to be with anyone, but I could be dating someone here by the fall too (hey..don't laugh..a girl can pretend, right??..haha). I suppose this leads us to the topic of my nonexistent but not really love life. So, I am quite certain that I crossed over to "friend neverneverland" with my crush at work. Yes, he is soooo out of my league but upon receiving numerous phone calls from him..telling me about situations in his life, etc...I am so there and this is ok. He will be the hottest guy friend that I have ever had.:-) And let's be honest just because we are friends doesn't me I can't crush a little, right? Ranting #2: I get so frustrated with girls who date way below their league. Now, I know many of your will argue against my "league theory", but if I phrased it a different way you may agree. For example...this guy...below my league..I am not saying that he is less of a person, I am saying that our backgrounds, education level, and appearance level are not so compatible. Sometimes someone can compensate with other areas..so that it makes you in the same league. Don't ask..it's a theory in jessica's dating manual, ok? Anyways, I just get frustrated at girls dating obviously below their league (as in I know both of them) because it messes with my pool of dateable men, you know? I am like step off...date in your own league...you are messing up my game (yes...because I have so much "game" in the dating world). It makes me not like some girls..that is all. Ranting #3: After discussion with a life long friend this weekend, we determined that perhaps we are just good "second wives". What am I talking about you may ask? I have tended to think that I was the "marrying type". Well, these days it is looking like that is not the case. It seems that many guys (now I know many exceptions too) fall for the girl that they thought they were just going to "date" and can get scared off by the "marrying type". It is like girls that come across as the "marrying type" need to have caution tape surrounding them or something. However, men who have been married once before..and perhaps have been burned are looking for the "marrying type"...hence those of us left may just be the good "2nd marriage marrying type". Hmm..something to think about. Many of my friends in relationships and currently dating are with men married once before...or perhaps it is just because we are the girls who went to college and pushed everything up and now that is simply the dating pool remaining. ( you know..at least a divorced guy is often not scared of committment and may be less likely to have some strange reason why they are single). Just ranting of course...please take it as that. Just girls thinking and talking.

So, I hope this satisfied that post more comment. Sometimes I feel like I post too much! I will make a conscious effort to blog more frequently...and then perhaps they won't be as long. If only I could get paid to blog...and to do photography. Night.