What's new in my life? Well, Kaden continues to eat Q-tips. And I also have made his hair look quite interesting in my attempts to get the hair out of his eyes. I mean, for the love, the dog requires haircuts more often than I do.

Matters of the heart..well it seems to be the same. Had a bad first date this week, a second date that has been followed up with no phone call, and regular contact with one guy. While I might at another time be excited about the regular contact with the guy(who's name rhymes with mock) but I am fairly certain that while he may enjoy hanging out with me, I don't think the situation is going to go anywhere. Therefore, I am putting a huge lock on my heart with that situation. Let's admit..I do have a fat ole crush on this guy, but I do not want to get carried away with my feelings..like I can with crushes..as many of you know. Should I throw out some examples to prove my point? (now all of you are sitting here reading this perhaps thinking of the many crushes I have bombarded you with over the years:-) I tell you...it baffles me how some people seem to just fall in and out of love over and over. ..hopping from one relationship to the other. It is a complicated process...finding someone with whom you can at least carry on conversation..and have similar interests....where there is a mutual attraction...and compatible schedules...and looking for similar things in the relationship..then you have to deal with issues such as kissing. Now I know many of you are saying, Jessica that is trivial, but I assure you that it is not. A kiss can make or break a potential romantic future. Talking with one of my nameless...but let's just say one of my single friends who is a HUGE fan of the current reigning american idol...we discussed that there seems to be varying styles of kissing and kissing compatibility if you will. Kissing..it seems simple enough..yet it is not. While one person may think you a wonderful kisser, the next guy is like..what's up with that. So, in the whole mess of things, I am suppose to find someone with whom there is physical, emotional, intellectual..and yes..kissing compatibility. In this last week or say of dating trials I have learned one lesson about internet dating: at least see the picture first before meeting..it will save some time on both ends.

Now...I will go indulge myself in my nightly routine. Wash my face, take my medications(sounds like I am an old lady), and watch today's soaps on my DVR. The small mindless, yet comforting things in life.